You are absolutely beautiful… you seem so incredibly unique. In the words of one of my favourite Paramore songs, I hate to see your heart break. Honestly, I wish it had never happened to you and I wish you could speed up time and all of a sudden see this pain in retrospect. We get used to things don’t we? Waking up to a text every morning, falling asleep to a phone call, hearing someone’s name and lighting up. These are all habits we have to break when we lose someone and it’s NOT FAIR because it’s TERRIBLE and you are AWESOME. Time will break all of the old habits and create new ones for you, and in the process, you will try to handle this immense pain with dignity. You will move on and you actually will be fine … I just want you to take one day at a time.
You and I both know there is some greater storyline for you than ‘girl gets heart broken, stays sad forever.’ I think a nice one would be ‘girl gets heart broken, was sad for a while but in her heartbreak found freedom, friends, and the ability to look back and laugh at all she’d learned. She now lives her life on her own terms and still has fantastic hair.’ I love you. Hang in there.
—Taylor Swift’s comment on a fan’s instragram. (via catherinejade1)